How to Get a Girl
I'm pretty sure that at some point of our lives, we've all had that special woman that we idolize; the one perfect female specimen that means the world to us. THE girl… with the sweetest smile, charming personality and a perfect face. She's the Miss Popular and dates the "in" guys. So, how do you get her to notice you?
Remember the saying that Men are from Mars and Women from Venus? There's a whole lot of truth in that statement as far as attraction between the sexes are concerned. There's no denying that men are primarily attracted to women based on their looks BUT what attracts a woman to a man is NOT so much of his looks but rather his personality. A man who projects confidence without being arrogant is VERY attractive to a woman.
Therefore, all is not lost for guys that don't make the grade in the looks department. What is important is to get the healthy dose of confidence, coupled with the right attitude and voila, she'll come running in no time at all!
Do not underestimate the importance of having the right mindset too. First thing to do before you set out to attract any one particular woman is that you should come from a mindset of high value. NEVER ever come from a position of neediness. That, my friend is the fastest way to drive a girl away!
A girl must be made to feel that she has EARNED you, only then will she LIKE you. Ironic, isn't it? But that's just how women behave. Do not seek to understand why this is so but just accepting it as a fact! On the hind sight, if you keep throwing yourself at her feet, she would BOLT for the nearest exit! No one appreciates a doormat, so don't be one!
The attitudes that you should have when trying to get a girl are non-attachment to her reaction to you and nonchalance. Non-attachment; meaning that it shouldn't matter if she is interested or not in you since there are 1001 other girls out there who are equally as great if not better than her. Appearing too eager or anxious to get to know her sends the signal that you are the needy type. That, my friend is a serious turnoff! You should also approach her with a nonchalance attitude. That attitude is bound to pique her interest and get her hooked on you!
While working on your self-esteem and self confidence, build up a network of woman friends. Dating is after all a numbers game so hitting a high score helps make you more attractive to women too. The 'social proof' phenomenon theorizes that women tend to be more attracted to a guy who is frequently surrounded by other women. However, do not overdo this either many women tend to avoid any guy they perceive as being a playboy!
While it is healthy and good to appreciate a woman's beauty and be attracted to her, here are a few tips to swear by ...
Be the kind of guy that a woman wants. As soon as a woman realizes that she has power over you, she starts losing her attraction to you!
Show her the confident you!
Change your mindset; place a high value on yourself AND make her earn your attention!
There you go, it's not impossible to get the girl of your dreams, isn't it?
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